Life in the "NOW" We spoke about life in the NOW when we were talking about Blonde. You ask what on earth does that mean. The answer is...

This is how children and animals live. This is why children and animals are happy all the time (well most of the time). You ask is it easy to live in the NOW as an adult? No, it is not. Living in the NOW means live today as it's your last day; only worry about today, not tomorrow, not yesterday, but today. Forget the bad days and enjoy the good days. Live like you will not have another day. Say things to people and do things that make you uncomfortable. I.E. I love you, thank for being there and how can I help you? Pass your kindness forward and do not expect anything in return. You will be surprised how kindness comes back to you 10 fold. You will meet people out of the blue without trying. Your circle of friends will grow. You will attract people like yourself and can feel safe in your zone of kind people. Know this, there are many many more good people on earth than not. This is a well kept secret. If you make a difference one time a week, with an effort you will be surprised how different your life will become. Do this slow. Don't think that over night you can stop worrying about bills, work problems, or family problems, but go slowly and it will work in you favor. I challenge you to this test if you want to try it. I will tell you one thing though, since I have been doing this, I can't remember to plan supper, or go to the store for food. But on the up side I go the same day so no one goes hungry at our house. If you would like to chat, please email me at HORSEHEALER1@aol.com.